My head is full of spaghetti – pretty much all of the time.
A head full of spaghetti is all about the feeling that you have a super busy brain, whirring away, constantly trying to make sense of things, reflecting on things, finding connections between things, thinking (deeply) about things, and trying to navigate through the complex tangle of thoughts and feelings that crop up throughout the day as we go about our business.
It was not until quite recently (embarrassingly late in life) that I realised that this was not true of everyone. In fact, it’s not true of most people.
Whilst it is true that most people will experience this spaghetti feeling sometimes, perhaps when they are uncharacteristically busy, or they’ve had an unusual amount of emotional ‘stuff’ going on (and often in the middle of the night), for some of us this is what it is like ALL THE TIME. And it doesn’t even have to be in response to anything particularly unusual or extreme, although this creates an even bigger tangle, it is simply how our brains operate. All day. Every day.
People like me have Highly Sensitive brains. We are wired to notice more subtlety in our environments and to process that information more deeply. We are likened to human antennae, picking up on, and reacting to the subtle signs that others miss.
It was Dr. Elaine Aron who identified that about 20% of us experience the world in this more attuned way, and she uses the term the Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) to describe someone who displays the characteristics (more on this in a dedicated post).
Oh, and I am also an Introvert.
This blog is all about life as an introvert and a highly sensitive person, and the journey to understanding, self-acceptance and beyond. It is about what it means to be HSP and introvert. It is about how to be authentic and thrive, with a head full of spaghetti!